How Behavior Shows Up in Astral Projection — Spotify from the CEC Library

Today's topic is astral projection—a central subject of spiritual and behavioral research. One person reported that she was going through experiences she did not know how to identify. I commented to a friend and received information about the subject in audio form on the Astral Projection CD, Volume One. I would like to comment on an experience I had, but I did not understand it. I saw myself at my workplace, where my boss and other employees were present. I was sleeping while worried about things I needed to finish, and at night I went to the other side to continue working. There, things seemed much more intense than here in the physical world. My boss, who is already somewhat aggressive, was even more aggressive. I brought it all back with me when I woke up, as though it had been very real. In fact, when I went to work, it seemed that things were still happening.

The person asked: why does this happen again when I notice tension in the environment? Even if nothing happened the day before, is that really it? Why is there an impression that these behaviors are so intense in this memory? Is there anything I can do so that this affects me less? When you carried out the astral projection, the sensation was amplified. Your workplace must be tense, an environment in which you have some difficulty. That environmental pressure always causes residues from the day, which can truly turn into an out-of-body experience, in an attempt to continue or resolve the situation. It seems that this is what happened to you.

Astral projection can occur for several reasons. It can happen spontaneously when you are very relaxed; it can be triggered by watching a film about spirituality or by something that caught your attention; it can arise when you see a very beautiful image that aroused a strong desire; or when you meet someone with whom you want to talk. Thus, astral projection is always connected to some desire or need that was not fulfilled in the physical body and manifests outside it.

It is important to know this, because one astral projection technique even consists of persisting in the work until the unconscious eventually demands that things happen. In the case of your boss being aggressive, from the way you are telling it, it seems that you have a somewhat withdrawn, somewhat passive characteristic. Normally, when someone reaches a management position, they have some characteristic, whether aggressiveness or extraordinary competence.

This can happen: when someone encounters a person who is so capable and competent and who handles tasks with great ease, that person may take a management position even without having an aggressive characteristic. Another way of becoming a boss is when the person occupies the space authoritatively, decides to be the boss, fights, and ultimately takes the position. There are other ways to attain a management position, but I am referring to the emotional characteristic you mentioned, and this is very important.

The fact that he is aggressive leaves a mark on your daily physical life and also seems to have carried over into your extra-physical life at the moment of astral projection. When we have an assertive characteristic in physical life, I insist that we work on the emotional aspect, because when saying no, we must know how to say that no. I believe it is a good idea to learn to say it politely, without emotional charges, and in an appropriate way. Hearing no causes grief and frustration in the other person and can generate anger; frustration is always accompanied by anger.

It is a good idea for us to learn how to deal with yes and no, which are two opposing and important factors in our life. Saying yes is very easy; it is a process of acceptance and submission in which we do not need to make any effort. The other person does not attack us when we say yes. Now, the issue is that this inner yes can bring us a very great emotional conflict, because when we say yes while wanting to say no, we have already created a conflict. This is reflected in the spiritual world as well. Therefore, we should learn about this.

Your emotional characteristics can provide more lucidity in the spiritual dimension or less. When you are able to say no in the physical world, you can also say no to negative spirituality. Spiritual harassment stops at the boundary; it cannot approach you if you have the strength and organized structures to say no. Your no truly means no and acts as an energetic barrier that is not so easy to cross. It does not need to be shouted. The no has to be an inner condition.

When someone asks you for something and you try to avoid saying no, you usually tell a long story because you cannot refuse directly; the "no" carries a charge and generates guilt. The person comes up and asks, "Can you lend me your car?" Then you reply, "Look, my car's tire is not very good, you know? The engine is failing." By saying no, you have already turned your car into an old, worn-out clunker that is impossible to use. You are thus using an indirect technique, full of twists and turns, that in fact convinces no one, not even the person who asked to borrow the car.

It is much easier to say, "Look, I do not like lending my car, I do not want to lend it, okay?" and not feel any guilt, but it is necessary to say this without emotional charge. If you can speak without emotional charge, everything will truly remain calm; the other person will understand and will not be offended, because a person is offended when they feel attacked, and we feel attacked when the other person speaks with emotional charge.

Emotional charge consists of all those things within us that are unresolved and that appear in our speech and our relationship with the other person. If you have anger, that anger will appear; if you are aggressive, your aggressiveness will appear; if you have some unresolved issue from your childhood or adolescence, all of this emerges in some way, and there is no way to hide it.

To achieve stability, tranquility, and absolute sincerity, we need to rid ourselves of this. If you manage to free yourself from it, when you enter the space of astral projection with maximum lucidity and come out of the body, you experience a very great expansion, as though you were leaving a prison. This body is dense; even in an astral projection with great lucidity, one feels an indescribable freedom and intense euphoria.

Your boss is aggressive in the physical world; this behavior was reflected in the spiritual world, spilling over to you with an even greater charge, and you are unable to stop it. That is why it is important to have an assertive attitude that allows you to act calmly, regardless of the other person, in accordance with your worldview and desires. Learning to be assertive is essential; controlling ourselves is not the same as being assertive.

Being assertive means understanding the things around us. The astral projection experience is a residue of life itself: you live during the day with a little lucidity and, at night, continue experiencing what you did not finish during the day. Thus, everything you begin during the day continues at night. This depends on your personality characteristics.

You ask why there is this impression of intensity. The person is physically aggressive; even with the physical barrier, you are affected, but in the spiritual world that barrier does not exist, which increases the perception of aggressiveness. In addition, when the person has a dysfunctional emotional characteristic, everyone around them—spirits, consciousnesses, relatives—shares the same characteristic, significantly increasing the power of what you will see and feel and truly affecting you. Most importantly, it is possible to maintain this spiritual relationship with a certain degree of lucidity; it seems that you experienced a moment of fragmented lucidity.

As you have already mentioned that this happened other times, everything becomes intensified when you perceive tension in the environment. Listener, it is more or less like this: what you are in the physical world, you are in the spiritual world as well, but your sensation in the spiritual world is much more elevated than it is here. Perhaps that is why we have some difficulty bringing back memories, recalling in the physical body what happened in the astral world. Everything is a little more intense, stronger. Thus, if you find peace, that peace will be extreme; if you find disorganization or disorder, it will also be very great compared with the physical body. We are unable to perceive this very clearly. I hope I have explained it to you.

I would like to comment on a situation that happened, but I ask that you not reveal my name because I feel somewhat embarrassed. A short time ago, I was in bed with my husband, and we were making love. I was completely involved in our exchange and, without realizing it, began to feel strange things: a sound inside my head that I cannot explain very well and a sensation of fading away. I began to see images and then felt that I could no longer move my body.

I sought psychological help because I was very frightened, and the psychologist said it could be an escape from reality because I was in an intimate moment that I unconsciously did not accept. I did not think that was true, because I do not feel that I have problems with my sexuality. In fact, I love my husband very much, and we talk openly and sincerely, including with our two children. As I listened to you, I thought that perhaps you could help me in some way.