Mini-course Learn about Reincarnation - Day 2, Birth — YouTube from the CEC Library

We believe that we evolve through relationship. The focus of this exploration is birth, starting from pregnancy. When a woman becomes pregnant, an envelope of etheric double is formed, in which the fetus will develop. The etheric double is an energetic layer that we carry throughout life. Perhaps you have seen, when looking at someone, a luminosity around the body, about one or two centimeters away from it. This luminosity varies from person to person and according to the person’s level of vitalization. The etheric double has the characteristics of the physical body. Actually, our physical body develops inside it. In the first days of the fetus’s development in the mother’s womb, cell multiplication takes place, and the etheric double follows that growth. During pregnancy, the spirit is not immediately inside the fetus. We learn in some religions, institutions, and sects that when a woman becomes pregnant, the spirit is already there to be born. But that is not how it works, based on the experience I have had throughout my life, especially because I have worked with disincarnation for many, many years. It remains beside the mother while the etheric double develops. When the umbilical cord forms, the etheric double also creates a bond with the Psychosoma, or spirit. Thus, the spiritual consciousness that will be your son or daughter is beside you. That explains why children often resent the reactions of their father and mother when they are born.

For example, an aggressive mother or father can create difficulties for the child, who may give up on being born up to the third month, resulting in a miscarriage. Do not be frightened by this and say, "Oh no, I lost my child." Probably, the child also could not withstand what is happening in the home. For example, in a home where the parents argue a lot and there is a lot of aggressiveness, violence, and bad moods, that consciousness, which is in a much subtler body, is deeply affected by this. It says, "I cannot be born; I will not be able to handle this."

Really, we are always born in the midst of what we are. You are not highly evolved and then born in a place that is not very evolved. This happens only with very advanced consciousnesses, which come with a mission and go exactly to the place where everyone will need them. But the usual pattern of births is this: the consciousness comes and stays in a family whose Egregor is very similar to its own. The mother does not need to worry because of a miscarriage. Perhaps this is the right time for you to review how you have been acting.

We create, directly or indirectly, situations that cause everything around us. For example, we cause our own illnesses, directly or indirectly. But imagine that your relationship with your husband or wife is very dysfunctional. What is that like in the spiritual world? Who are the consciousnesses that accompany someone when these conflicting situations happen? It becomes really bad. The exteriorization of energies is very violent. Aggressive energy contaminates the environment and harms everyone. We are the only ones who do not want to see it.

The idea that "we fight, but we love each other" is illusory. To love is to live in peace and energetic linearity, without disputes.

This is my point of view, and I know it causes a lot of controversy when a mother says, "Gee, but I would not want to have this child because I cannot raise them." The general idea is that when we do this, we are killing a life, a child. But up to the third month, the child is still not in the physical body. The child is not inside the fetus; the child is outside it. Sometimes, even up to the fourth month, the child is not inside the body. So the child is beside the mother, connected to the fetus that will one day carry them. Our spirit carries our body and makes the journey of physical life. However, this is the moment of transition: until the third or fourth month, an abortion is possible by the mother’s decision or by the spirit’s decision.

After the third or fourth month, an abortion becomes much more difficult, and the child has already accepted being born. We are all born with hundreds of spiritual years, carrying the emotional charge of previous lives. That explains why some children are gentler and others much more aggressive, bold, and invasive, also influenced by the family context. The path of birth involves more than just the physical process. Emotional contexts mean the following: you still experience anger, grudges, a desire for revenge, and hurt. We think the things we carry are normal. But I say they are not normal; I say they are common. To be normal is to be good and balanced. I believe, though I may be wrong, that being normal means tending toward balance.

I do not believe that anything is perfect, but that it tends toward balance. If you are still in an emotional state, there are helper consciousnesses that act as supervisors or coordinators of birth and death. These spiritual helpers offer you the choice of a group and also guide your life path, because, as an emotional consciousness, you are not in a position to make the journey on your own.

You say, "Oh, so when I am about to be born, does someone come and talk to me?" Yes, these consciousnesses come close and present the birth situations to you. Through free will, you choose your path. They also talk about the best path for your growth and evolution. This is important for us: you do not come here and simply not grow. Birth and death are traumatizing moments. At birth, the trauma makes you forget everything that was agreed upon. This is the most common thing to happen, because we are involved in many emotions and emotional charges. At death, you lose everything, including yourself, which is also traumatizing. You lose your body, which is you, and you forget many things. These are important moments.

You are born with a life script, provided by the existential programming helpers. It is essential to understand that, in order to follow the path discussed with them, you have to feel. We should try to feel which is the best path, because we are easily diverted by emotions and numbing. It is common to know what is right but to do what is wrong in the hope that it will work.

You become involved with people who do not help much. Our path is wonderful. We have the guidance of spiritual helpers, very advanced consciousnesses that know exactly what you must do in order to grow, at least a little, within what you are. Each person can grow more or less, depending on their inner competence. This is a guided path. When we start talking about past lives and all that, you will see how much sense it all makes and how good it is for us to know about this.