Orgasm (Human Factors) — YouTube from the CEC Library

Orgasm through contact between two people is a complex subject. I think most of us do not know an orgasm. Orgasm differs from ejaculation and involves more than a physical climax; it requires complete involvement. It is not merely a physical relationship like that of animals, which mate for the purpose of reproduction. Although animals feel pleasure, there are no affection or emotional components like those humans create and value, such as love and feelings. We often do not use tenderness, affection, or the appropriate tone of voice for a more complete relationship. A physical relationship is not merely the touching of bodies; it is more than that.

Reaching this level of connection is not easy, because our neediness leads us to act carelessly. Often it is merely an emotional discharge. To use this energy more productively, we need to become more deeply involved. A relationship should be developed through conversation, tenderness, and affection. All the components beyond physical and sexual contact should be present so there can be grace, joy, playfulness, and good humor, allowing each person to accept the other completely. It is not about making demands of the other person, but about sharing. Often, when one person is not doing well, the partner becomes upset and begins to offend the other. This happens to both men and women.

Physical and sexual contact, which may lead to orgasm, should be shared. It is important to talk honestly about what is pleasant and what is uncomfortable, always with tenderness and without emotional burdens. This improves the relationship. A true orgasm is not merely an action of the base chakra, but involves all the chakras. This requires preparation and emotional and rational involvement.

A true orgasm reverberates through all the chakras and may even produce an astral projection, generating lasting happiness. It is not merely a passing moment. The relationship should involve understanding, acceptance, and mutual respect, without needing additives or "embellishments" to achieve orgasm. When we add external elements to the relationship, we distance ourselves from our partner. This indicates an unsatisfactory relationship with oneself and with the other person. The use of pornographic films and other additives diverts us from personal growth. Physical and sexual contact should be an exchange of tenderness and affection, without dependence on external elements.

A relationship should be more than just physical satisfaction; it should involve tenderness and affection that begin before contact and continue afterward. Every moment is important and should be filled with joy, laughter, and good humor. Mentally evoking another person during the sexual act is a form of energy theft and may be harmful. Orgasm is wonderful for those who seek deep and meaningful contact. We should be with someone we like, with whom we can talk, and who is on the same path as we are. If the goals are different, the relationship will not work. It is important to live in peace and tranquility.