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Narrated by Moisés Esagüi4 min read

Healthy sexual desire arises naturally between people who care for each other, with love and tenderness, rather than merely making up for neediness.

What is healthy sexual desire like? (Consciousness and Evolution Program)
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Summary

Healthy sexual desire arises naturally with love and affection between people who want to build something together. It is not limited to alleviating neediness and does not depend on unhealthy stimuli. The balanced maturation of the chakras allows people to experience each stage of sexuality with ease, while selfishness linked to the base chakra prevents them from considering the other person. This is one of several possible approaches, guided by common sense and attention to one's own needs and those of others. Bioenergy also contributes to personal growth: the exteriorization of energies helps others, and practicing it collectively can improve the world.

Source transcript

Bioenergy is essential in our lives; everything is energy. We need a healthy life and we need to understand how our emotions influence our evolution. Evolution is liberation, and we should seek it. The goal is to be better as human beings and exemplary in behavior. An excerpt from the book "The Seven Date Seeds" speaks of love, happiness, and good ideas. The passage shows an elderly man offering dates in exchange for a story. Giving thanks with feeling, and not only with emotion, changes our life, opens our chakras, and transforms our path.

Self-growth and life review are fundamental in order to avoid unnecessary reincarnations. All people are important, and we should do our best. Question: What is healthy sexual desire like? Sexuality is a complex subject, like politics or soccer. It is important in our lives; we are born from a sexual act. Our continuity depends on many factors for a healthy balance. To be healthy is to see oneself and others clearly, without arrogance or presumption.

Flammarion said that our life is a spark in eternity. Reading is important; I prefer physical books, which allow annotations and do not depend on batteries or electricity. The central question is what constitutes a healthy sexual desire. We need to mature, to improve, and to organize ourselves. The course of life should allow us to live each phase, or seven-year cycle, calmly. Although the concept of the seven-year cycle is speculative, the maturity of each chakra can vary between six and nine years, depending on the person. If that process occurs in a balanced way, we will go through the phases of more intense sexuality in adolescence and early adulthood, until our early thirties, because of the work of the chakras.

After that, sexual activity can continue to be healthy and happy, but detached from unhealthy stimuli. Unhealthy stimuli are those that generate dependence. A relationship between a man and a woman should occur naturally, with tenderness and affection. If the relationship is only to make up for neediness, it is no longer a healthy sexual desire. Sexual desire should arise naturally, in a context of love and tenderness. However, people often become infatuated quickly and want everything immediately, as we see in films, where a casual encounter in a bar quickly leads to intimate relations. That is not healthy sex, but a reduction of the human being to a primitive state, in which one no longer thinks.

That behavior is associated with a level of consciousness linked to the base chakra, which can lead to selfish and insensitive attitudes. People at that level can mistreat others without remorse, because they act in a clouded way. Freud approached sexuality as part of human behavior, covering various aspects. An example of this is when a woman was stabbed by a man in a bar while people watched, without intervening. This happens because, in groups, people tend not to act, revealing a lack of individual competence to discern right from wrong.

The base chakra can turn someone into a dictator or a bad ruler, concerned only with themselves. At that level of consciousness, healthy sex does not happen. Examples of this are parents who rape their daughters or older adults who molest young people, without considering the importance of the other person. Healthy sexuality occurs when two people like each other and want to build something together, with sex representing only 2% to 3% of the relationship, the rest being coordinated by love.

This is only one idea of healthy sexual desire, because there are others. A question can have countless answers, depending on the approach: human behavior, spirituality, beliefs, or philosophies. Common sense is the right measure for discussing human questions, avoiding preconceived beliefs and focusing on sincere relations with our own needs and those of others.

It is possible to discover how emotions influence your life, to identify personality characteristics, to learn techniques of circulation of energy, meditation, and relaxation, as well as exercises with the chakras. Mental stillness, achieved through breathing and meditation, is valuable. Laying on of hands involves capturing and exteriorizing energies for healing.

Yesterday a person contacted me by email and reported the case of a person with cancer who signed up for the daily assistential task. With continuous work, that person began to feel better and better, without understanding what was happening. When they returned to their medical appointment, the doctor said that the cancer had disappeared. Another exam confirmed that there was no longer any cancer. Each human being is a spark of energy that can unite with all the others.

There are about 7 billion 300 million consciousnesses on this planet who can radiate, simultaneously, a wonderful energy to improve the world. When you begin to exteriorize energy in your home, in the plants, in the work environment, you will understand that we are only energy. Energy in movement is the energy of light and truth, and we need to exercise ourselves in that. We need to dedicate ourselves with 100% of will and decision in order to overcome the obstacles and help others to do the same.

Questions raised by this material

  • What is healthy sexual desire?
  • How does the maturation of the chakras influence sexual desire?
  • What is the connection between the base chakra and sexuality?

Keywords

sexualityneedinesslovebase chakra

How to cite

Esagüi, M. (2016, February 22). What is healthy sexual desire like? (Consciousness and Evolution Program) [Video]. Center for Consciousness Studies. https://centrodeestudos.org/en/library/what-is-healthy-sexual-desire-like-consciousness-and-evolution-program/

What is healthy sexual desire like? (Consciousness and Evolution Program) — CEC Library