Mini-course Learn Healthy Sexuality - Day 1, Seduction — YouTube from the CEC Library

Seduction is a common practice in our life, used in various situations, such as in selling products. However, the seduction we will address here is the one that occurs in relationships between men and women. Since childhood, we have learned, often on impulse, to convince the other person that we are better than we really are.

The energy of seduction is powerful and present in both humans and animals. It is important to be careful with this energy. If you meet someone with whom you want to build a path of happiness and mutual goals, it is natural for there to be an exchange of seduction energies, which are energies of our lowest chakra. From the age of seven onward, these energies begin to manifest more strongly, and we often do not understand the physical and spiritual transformations that take place. This desire and neediness come mixed together, and we only understand them better through education and guidance.

The energy of seduction can be one of giving or one of theft. When you give, you are trying to convince the other person of your worth. When you steal, it can be through power or hierarchy, like a boss who seduces subordinates. Seduction is a matter of compensation, in which there is always the promise of something good.

However, this energy is serious, because some people never stop needing it, remaining in a state of emotional adolescence. This can lead to regressive behaviors, in which people who are 50 or 60 years old act like adolescents or even children in order to obtain energy from others. Primitive consciousnesses operate at the level of the base chakra and can benefit from this movement of seduction, generating energy for spirits to enjoy themselves. This can create a euphoric life, but not necessarily a good one. The person may feel admired and appear perfect, but in reality they are searching for a reference point that cannot provide continuity for them.

Seduction can be healthy, depending on how it is used, but it can also be unhappy. At parties or clubs, the exchange of energy between strangers is common. Some people seduce with no intention of continuity, while others seek to fill emotional neediness, which can be an unhappy investment in something with no future. If we want someone who is really worthwhile, we should not look in places where almost nothing has lasting value. These environments are marked by momentary euphoria and joy, without producing anything greater than immediate satisfaction.

By contrast, there are places where people dress well and are attractive, seducing through appearance. This seduction occurs at different levels, often without conscious effort. A person's bearing is already enough to create that attraction. It is important to reflect on this in order to avoid future regrets, such as investing effort in something that brings no significant results. Healthy sexuality should be aligned with balanced reasoning and common sense. Resorting to seduction whenever you feel neediness is not a good idea.